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W życiu dziecka nadchodzi taki moment, że staje się zaborcze, pilnuje swoich zabawek jak oka w głowie i żadne inne dziecko nie ma prawa ich dotknąć. Wystarczy, że ktoś chce w piaskownicy pożyczyć łopatkę lub grabki i awantura gotowa. Jak na to reagować? Martwić się, że mamy w domu aspołecznego samoluba?

 

Oczywiście martwić się nie ma sensu. Trzeba sobie uświadomić, że to zupełnie naturalny etap rozwoju, przez który przechodzi każde dziecko. Dzieje się to zwykle w wieku 1,5-2 lat. Podobnie jak przy buncie dwulatka dziecko zaczyna uświadamiać sobie swoją tożsamość, odrębność i naturalnie budzi się poczucie własności. Nie ma w tym nic złego.

Oczywiście, rodzicom zwykle jest głupio i próbują przekonać dziecko, by jednak było bardziej towarzyskie i milsze dla innych, ale kończy się to zwykle buntem i wrzaskiem. Sama pamiętam, jak razem z malutką wtedy córką odwiedziłam koleżankę mającą w domu zbuntowaną dwulatkę. Oczywiście za nic nie chciała pozwolić nawet zbliżyć się do swoich zabawek, a jej rodzicom było przykro i mieli poczucie winy, że tak ją wychowali. Zupełnie niesłusznie.

Na tym etapie należy raczej być zadowolonym, że nasze dziecko prawidłowo się rozwija i jego przywiązanie do własności po prostu trzeba uszanować. Jak powiedziała mi psycholog z Uniwersytetu Gdańskiego-Magdalena Chrzan-Dętkoś-dla dziecka jego łopatka, koparka czy lalka to coś najcenniejszego, tak jak dla nas na przykład samochód-też raczej niechętnie go pożyczamy.

Problemem są oczywiście te słynne awantury w piaskownicy, ale jakoś musimy to przetrwać i uważać na innych buntowników. Bo dziecko na ogół, choć własnych zabawek bardzo pilnuje, po zabawki innych chętnie sięga, a wtedy łatwo oberwać łopatką.

Oczywiście, gdy ta niechęć do dzielenia się pozostaje w dziecku dłużej, warto jakoś przekonać je, by się zmieniło. Rozmawiać, tłumaczyć, dawać dobry przykład. Nie znam, prawdę mówiąc, innych sposobów. Zwykle przychodzi to naturalni szczególnie, gdy dziecko ma rodzeństwo. Oczywiście bywa i tak i mam wrażenie, że znam takie przypadki, gdy cecha ta pozostaje już na całe życie.

A wracając do piaskownicy i tamtejszej szkoły przetrwania. Uważam, że to rzeczywiście świetna szkoła życia. Dziecko musi sobie jakoś radzić i może nawet, dopóki nikomu nie dzieje się krzywda, rodzice nie powinni zbyt mocno interweniować. Niech nauczy się walczyć o swoje i bronić swojego wiaderka. Już wolę, by córka umiała to robić, niż stała się podwórkową sierotką, której każdy może wszystko zabrać i przy okazji jeszcze uderzyć grabkami.

 

Napiszcie proszę drodzy rodzice, jakie są Wasze doświadczenia? Czy u Waszych dzieci poczucie własności już się obudziło? Jak radzą sobie wśród innych walczących o zabawki dzieci? Czekam na komentarze i jak zawsze mam dla Was dziecięce koszulki Radia Gdańsk. 

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0 # Dorota 2014-08-13 11:12
Moje dziecko dokładnie między 1,5 a 2 latka tak się awanturowało o zabawki, że to głowa mała, ale teraz mając 2.5 roku samo mówi, że się podzieli z kolegą zabawką, aby uzyskać zgodę na zabranie z domu jakiejś rzeczy do żłobka. Jak widać to mija - przynajmniej częściowo :)
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0 # Monika 2014-08-13 11:25
Jak dobrze słyszeć, że to mija:) Pani Doroto, zapraszam do Radia Gdańsk po koszulkę dla synka, będzie czekała w recepcji.
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